Modern love & Relationships
4 Ways to Find Comfort & Joy During a Difficult Holiday
It's the middle of the night in December, and I can't sleep. Sitting in the darkness with the glare of my laptop blinding me, my thoughts drift to my three sons. The youngest is sleeping soundly in his bed. His two older brothers are away at college. Apart from all...
5 Reasons to Delay Your Divorce Until After the Holidays
Are you contemplating whether you should file for divorce now or wait until after the holiday season? You and your spouse have decided to divorce, and up until now, you've kept this decision between you. Thanksgiving has come and gone. But sometime between then and...
3 Questions That Can Haunt You Post-Divorce
Is second-guessing your decision to divorce making you crazy? Do you wish you could go back in time and revisit that decision? To discover the three questions that can haunt many women after divorce, please click here.
Divorce & the Holidays: 15 Tips to Getting You Through
Getting through the holidays while going through the holidays while going through a divorce can be a huge emotional hurdle. It feels like triggers are everywhere: holiday shoppers, music and movies, couples holding hands, and memories of yesterday's traditions. If you...
Second Guessing Your Decision to Divorce?
It's human nature to revisit the big decisions you've made. Second-guessing your decision to divorce is part of a natural process in your growth and evolution. Please read my recent article in Divorce Magazine.
4 Tips to Help You Find Your Footing During Divorce
It's normal to feel unsteady and adrift when going through a divorce. For tips on how you can find your footing during this time of major transition, please read my recent article in Divorce Magazine.
I Never Thought I’d Be Single Again at This Age
Photograph by Max Poschau "When you fall in a river, you're no longer a fisherman; you're a swimmer." ~ Gene Hill Now that you're in midlife, is everything beginning to look and feel different? Are your children starting to leave the nest? Does it feel as if your...
The Gifts of Divorce: A Workbook for Healing and Self-Discovery
Illustration by Joan Perrin-Falquet You Are a Fighter For all that is true and meaningful. For your newfound clarity. For your values and principles. For your self-respect and reclaimed soul. As you fight for the ability to accept and let go, you celebrate the freedom...
4 Ways to Create an Amazing Life After Divorce
Do you think your divorce is the end of your life? Think again. How often do you get a do-over in life? Your divorce experience can be just that. A magnificent do-over. After all the pain and tremendous change that you've been through, would you choose to suffer it...
How to Find Closure After Your Spouse Leaves
(Photograph by Daria Nepriakhina) Beautiful girl, you can do hard things. I love helping women on their journey to recover from divorce. I see the most beautiful souls - vulnerable, lost, confused, and strong. These are the women I call brave hearts. They have been...